What if your man gets real ANGRY… (Photo taken by Crickette)
I know, I know I am guilty of not posting for the longest time. I've missed blogging so much! I am soooooo glad to back in the game again 
So what has been up lately?
It's been some trying times for us in the past few weeks, especially for Dodong, who is again VERY stressed at work plus add loneliness to the equation and you have an deadly explosion. Or rather an ANGRY explosion. Eeek! A seriously uncomfortable situation. So how do I deal with the anger? How do I manage LDR anger?
Two simple things ladies…
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Oh how I wish lang…(Image borrowed from www.snowdesign.com)
Oh how I really wish I had absolutely no long distance relationship fears at all. But I have them and I can summarize these into 3. And these are the root of all my headaches in the long distance relationship arena of which I am currently experiencing at the moment (annoying sleepless nights and bouts of rage).
Can you guess what these are? Here goes in reverse order…
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Looking forward to a brighter tomorrow
My boss and I were talking the other day about the most stressful moments in a person's life. These include:
- A New Job / New work responsibilities
- Moving houses
- Having a baby (or more so, giving birth)
- Getting married
Hmmm did I miss anything else? Oh, maybe experiencing any of these in the middle of a long distance relationship?
Not just maybe, but experiencing the above plus being in a long distance relationship is most definitely more stressful than ever…
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I was like this for the past 3 days.
Lately, Dodong and I have been getting on each other's nerves. I toldja our relationship isn't perfect. We've been fighting over some petty things, which were blown out of proportion and we've been giving each other the silent treatment…long distance relationship style.
How is the silent treatment different when it's long distance?
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Blame it on the A-a-a-a-alcohol!
3 days to go and Dodong will be HERE! I'm am really quite excited but this excitement seems to have triggered some weird emotions. I get these when I'm PMSing, but I just finished my period. So where the heck is this all coming from?!?Homecoming anxiety????
Because of the upsurge in emotion (So ok, I'm blaming it on the hormones) Dodong and I had another long discussion, or rather debate, AGAIN about the effects of alcohol.
He used NOT to drink, and now drinking is part of his desert lifestyle (Is there really a need for this? Pls help me understand!). Dodong now drinks at least 1x a week. So ok, he does tell me when he drinks and he is usually with his usual set of friends. But still the idea makes me iffy, sparking a fear in me. I guess I'm still not 100% over the trauma. I must admit I am afraid that something bad might happen in one of the events of inebriation.
Here are the reasons why alcohol scares me…
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